There will probably be certain points in her cycle where shes much more sensitive than usual. There may even be times when shes too sensitive for any sort of breast play. Dont be surprised if she needs different things from you. Breasts also change a lot after a woman has given birth and while shes breastfeeding. She may not want any breast contact for a while, or she may need you to be much more gentle than usual. No Honking, Please. Were all unique when it comes to how we like our bodies to be touched, but there are few sexual acts more universally despised than the breast honk. I have never met a woman who enjoyed having her breasts squeezed this way especially not as sexual initiation. Jed_Helix_1D.png' alt='21 Rules Of Thumb For Shipping Great Software On Time' title='21 Rules Of Thumb For Shipping Great Software On Time' />Please dont treat your partners breasts like old fashioned horns. The same goes with kneading. It just doesnt feel good for most women. Remember Jon Hamms breast play move on Kristen Wiig in Bridesmaids If you havent seen it, its the perfect example of lackluster kneading. Dont pull that move. In general, breast sensitivity comes from the skin, not from the fat of the breast itself. So honking, kneading, and squeezing dont typically feel as great as stroking and kissing. These moves also neglect the nipple, which tends to be the most sensitive part of the breast more on this later. So youve done a little exploring with your fingers, and now youre ready to take your anal play to Read more Read. Work with Clothing. You dont need to be in a rush to unclothe your partners breasts. Breast play can feel pleasurable even through clothing, and it can also be a nice way to tease her. Rub her breasts over her shirt. To evoke a sense of teenage nostalgia, put your hands up her shirt and play with her breasts over her bra. Once you get her shirt off, touch the parts of her breasts that the bra doesnt cover, gliding your fingertips along the top edge of her bra. Take Your Time. Even once youve gotten her clothes off, you can still take your time teasing her. Spend some time tracing her collarbone with your finger, then kissing along it. Touch and kiss along the sides of the breasts, without going straight for the nipple right away. Pay Attention to the Underboob and Sideboob. Most people tend to squeeze the entire boob, or focus on just the nipple. Thats a shame, because the underboob and sideboob can both be exquisitely sensitive. The areas Im talking about are where her breast meets her ribcage. As the names imply, the underboob is the lower part of the breast, and the side boob is the outer edge the side near her armpit. This area tends to respond best to delicate touch. Very gently trace a fingertip along this sensitive curve. Start at the outer edge and slowly work your way around to the middle of her chest. You can also do this with your tongue, or with light kisses. Youve explored anal play for the first time, youve played with a few toys, and now youre readyRead more Read. Nipples are Unique. Nipples are sort of like clitorises some women can hardly stand direct contact, while other women need very firm pressure. As with the clitoris, its best to err on the side of being too gentle, then work your way up to more pressure. Start off by lightly stroking her nipple and circling the areola the flat section around the pointy nipple. If your partner pushes her body towards you or makes a lot of noise, try gradually increasing pressure. Or just ask her, Do you want moreIf she wants more intensity, try gently pinching her nipples between your thumb and forefinger. Slowly increase the pressure, and ask her to tell you when its too much. Or you can try pulling on her nipples. Cup her breast in your hand, and pull on her nipple with your thumb and forefinger, pulling the breast further away from her ribcage. You can also gently twist her nipples, but be careful with this move, as its pretty intense. Get Your Mouth Involved. Get your lips, tongue, and teeth involved as well as your hands. You can lick, suck, and nibble on her breasts. Try licking the curve from sideboob to underboob, or sucking or nibbling on her nipples. You can also get some temperature play involved, by licking her breast then lightly blowing onto the area. If she likes a lot of pressure, try sucking and biting on her nipples. Again, start off gentle, and gradually increase the pressure until you find what she likes. Fantasies come in many different intensities. Some are so compelling that youve just got to act on Read more Read. Bring in the Toys. You can use vibrators or feather ticklers to create new sensations on her breasts. Even running a silk tie or scarf over her breasts can feel great. If she likes more intense nipple play, you can buy nipple clamps or suckers. You can also try blindfolding her, and touching her breasts with different toys or materials. Not knowing whats coming can be a wildly intense experience. Or try using use lube or massage oil to help your hands really slide around on her breasts. Ask Her to Touch Them. Another way you can learn what she likes is to ask her to touch her own breasts. Error 1713 Cannot Install One Of Is Required Products For Industry. This can be especially hot while youre in the middle of another activity, like intercourse or fingering her. Watch the specific ways she touches herself, and try to get a sense of how much pressure she uses.